Hope… Trust… Which is more important?
Did I just see another Kasal Kasali Kasalo? Hahaha. A movie turned real-life story.
How long have they been married? Around 2 years? And how long have they been together before getting married? Another 2 years? Does she not know her husband well enough to give him her trust in matters like this? Does she not love him great enough to consider working things out for the sake of the family instead of giving up "habang maaga pa". Considering she’s from a very religious family, and I would assume that she is very religious also, shouldn’t it be her instinct to fight for her family rather than be affected by what the third party is trying to do. She and her husband are both very popular, very rich, high profile personalities so she should have conditioned herself that somehow, somewhere along the way, different type of persons would try to use them for personal gains. It’s happening right now, and if their love for each other is strong enough, this should have been a non-issue for them.
Yes she’s a very strong person and she is very much capable of raising her children all by herself, but doing that just because she is not willing enough to stick it out and work things out with her husband is very selfish. Yes, women should be loved and respected by their husbands. But don’t husbands deserve to be loved and respected to?
Husbands, especially those who love their wives, are generally very submissive to wives and would rather shut up than hear their wives argue with them to the point of nagging. But that doesn’t mean that the wives are always right. Husbands will never say that their wives are getting fat simply because they do not want to hurt their wives’ feelings. Loving husbands are usually complacent, non-complaining, agreeable, but that doesn’t mean that they totally agree to everything that their wives say.
Wives, beware when pushing your husbands submissiveness because when they reach their limit, you might not like it when they say enough is enough. When your husbands do something you do not like, you should be strong enough to ask yourselves "what did I do wrong?", and of course you should be honest and objective enough to answer that. Otherwise, you will end up like the controversial couple whose marriage is about to be extinguised like a cigarette butt.
